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Coming up on Paratruth Reborn, I'll be talking to Jody
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Livin about dead loved ones and how they guide us
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even from beyond.
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Welcome, Well, do para truth Truth?
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What's going on paratruthers? Welcome to another episode of Paratruth Reborn.
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My name is Justin. Tonight, we are excited to talk
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with Jody Livin about dead loved ones guiding us. Jody,
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Welcome to Paratruth be Born.
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Thank you for having me. I'm very excited about this.
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Yeah, absolutely so. I loved you on Jim Harold's show,
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So I loved it that much that I wanted to
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get you on here. But before we get into it,
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for anyone who is new to your work or has
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not heard of you before, how did mediumship first become
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part of your life?
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So? Mediumship was always part of my life. I could
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feel spirits and smell them and see them and all
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of this. I just didn't understand it. And when I
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did start to understand it, I didn't like it. So
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I ignored it. And you when you're meant to do something,
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you can't ignore it for long. So, as I always say,
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I learned that either I would have my intuition or
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my intuition would have me, and I started being more.
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I was open to the psychic piece in high school,
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but I started becoming really more open to the median
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piece after my Grandma Fee died because I trusted her
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so much and more than really anybody in the world
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and someone who she was out of the world, and
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she connected with me. I felt like, Okay, she loves me.
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I can feel what this feels like. It must be
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safe to connect with kind spirits. I called them ghosts
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at the time, kind spirits, And so I opened up
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more and more, and then I did more boundary work
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because that was really the thing. But before that, didn't
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study anything about ghosts, didn't want to talk about ghosts,
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couldn't stand having my hair pulled by ghosts, being tripped
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by ghosts, having them talk to me in my ear,
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even relatives. Before Faye died, even relatives would try to
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talk about noop, noop, nop, nope, nope, And now I
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have boundaries about it. But it's yes.
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Now. Was there ever like this aha moment, like yeah,
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this is something more than just my intuition.
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There are many so one of them is my uncle
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Benny died, and I think his wife was surely sar
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people on the other side. And we were at their apartment,
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me and my mom and my dad and all my
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cousins and my aunts and uncles, because they had this
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giant apartment in South Minneapolis, and they had so many chadgets,
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so many like figure eats from all over the world.
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They traveled, and they had other stuff like that, and
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people were trying to decide who got what, and the
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kids got to go at it, and my uncle was
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saying to me and my aunt, make sure Jim gets this,
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make sure Denise gets that, make sure Jeff gets that.
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So telling me who should get what, I'll never forget it.
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I was standing in a doorway kind of leaning against it,
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going when I could feel that it was my uncle
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and my aunt because they had this special kind of
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love for each other and for their kids and whether
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they're not their kids but their nieces and their nephews,
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and so I just knew that's when I got that's
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and I wasn't afraid of that. I don't know why,
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but I wasn't. I just told everybody, here's what you're
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supposed to get. Kind of fun bossing people around with
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a ghost in my ear.
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Well, and you know I've been doing this for twenty years,
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You've been apparently doing this for forty years now, something
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that I still have a hard time understanding some of
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this stuff. But how is your understanding of mediumship changed
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over the years.
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So I learned to understand the difference between a ghost
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and a spirit. So ghost is a soul that did
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not cross over into the light after their body die,
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and it doesn't mean they don't get to though, And
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a spirit is someone a soul that did that went
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into the light. So I think that understanding was a
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really big deal. And the other one was I didn't
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always have to interact with them just because they were
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trying to interact with me, and that I could turn
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it down. Can't tur it off, but I could turn
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it down. And now disrespect to any spirits or ghosts,
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but I could tell them to buzz. Really, if they
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were intruding on my boundaries, I can say no, because
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it's our space. We get to have our space. So
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I stopped being so afraid. I did stop being so afraid.
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Now when I'm writing in the middle of the night
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and one of them starts to go like this, to me,
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which is very often, but sometimes I don't really like that.
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It's concerning when they touch you, because it's happened to
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me being a cocky young paranormal investigation. You're saying, hey,
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you're saying you're here, prove it. We were listening to
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a ghostbox session and they cress the back of my neck.
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I'm like, okay, yet they're here. I'm going to go outside. Guys.
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I'm good. It's just in a minute.
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Because we like our space. We like our space, and
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they like theirs, and when we're in their space, sometimes
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they like us to know they don't like it.
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Right. Yeah, Well, and you know, I've learned more and
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more to be more respectful. Obviously was not back then,
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very much realized that provoking is not a good thing,
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not okay, especially since people have to live or work
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in the area that you're doing investigations or readings.
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So it be evolved, right, Yeah, we'd evolved. We just
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keep evolving.
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Yeah, but yeah, you know, to to your point, I've
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gotten comfortable now where I'm like, just leave me alone.
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I don't I can't do this right now. I'm working.
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I have to work. I'll try and figure something out. Later,
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and I'm still growing in all of that because there
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are plenty of times that I don't know if it's
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my imagination, is it you know, I'm picking up on stuff,
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is it being I'm very empathic where to the point
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that I don't know if it's my feelings or somebody else's.
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So yeah, we are constantly evoling. And I've asked myself
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over and over again, you know, if I were to
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do it over again, would I open myself up? And
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I think every time I've said yes, because I've always
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had these questions of if I can do it, but
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also that people need validation when things are happening too, So.
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Right, may I comment on the piece about gosh a
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spirit just jumped right into my head about the not
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knowing if it's you or someone else. So I also
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experience that. But because I've done this since I was
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a kid, I learned that if I really understand how
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I feel all the time, and most people don't want
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to do that because then you have to deal with
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your feelings that don't feel good, and none of us
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really want to do that. If you know how you feel,
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then if all of a sudden you start to feel different,
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you know it's not. You try it. I'd love to
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know if that works for you.
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Okay, Yeah, I'll definitely experiment with that. Now talking about
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all of this, you know, both of us being sensitive.
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Do you believe that everybody has these abilities or is
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it like only certain people.
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I believe everybody has them, some more than others. So
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it's like there are people that are amazing at basketball.
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Everybody can most everybody can throw the ball, but not
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everybody can be so amazing at basketball. Every people that
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can speak can sing, but not always so beautifully. So
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we all have the ability. It's creative ability. It's the
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same energy as love and creativity. So I do, but
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some more than others. And I also believe if you
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abuse it, it can be taken away.
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Yeah. I've felt that way for a very long time too.
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And I you know, I've had experiences when I was
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very very young, and by very young, i'd say in
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my early teens to late teens. But to reopen myself,
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it was a completely different ballgame and I wasn't ready
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for it. I should have prepared myself better. But yeah,
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it's one of those things that there are people that
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believe that there are natural mediums versus those that have
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to work at it.
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So I believe everybody is psychic. I don't everybody, and
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I believe everybody is mediumistic, but I think it's more
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limited about who can really connect with spirits except for
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our own loved ones. Okay, everybody can connect with their
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loved ones, excuse me, everybody, but people who can connect
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with spirit energy. I don't think that's as common as
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the psychic piece, but it can be.
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Now, with that being said, you know there are people
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that can do both. But for those that are just
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connecting with dead loved ones, or even either way, is
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it one of those things where it's they're they're as
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kind of like a spirit guide, or are they just
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kind of coming back to check on us and guide
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us from a mistake like they would have been in
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the living.
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So a lot of people believe that their guys are
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their dead relatives. I don't. I know that's not very popular.
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I believe our relatives can help us, but they're not
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a main guide. So they can come and give us
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some guidance and give us some support, but we also
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have this beautiful spiritual team that helps us, a divinely
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guided spirit team like our guides and our angels, and
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our loved one from our loved ones from the other
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side can be a part of it, but they're not
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the main piece. But when you're going through something big,
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they often come back to help. And if let's say
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they were terrible at talking about how they feel and
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you're stuck talking about how you feel, they may come
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back to give you some support. They come back in
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those hours where they finished things that they didn't finish,
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and they also want to help you. So I miscarried
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and my Grandma Dalli, who was not a real touchy
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feely person, came back to essentially hug my heart. Well,
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I was going through one of the hardest things I'd
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ever gone through. So that's how they can come back.
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If you decide to write a book and you have
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relatives that were writers, they come back to give you
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a little guidance. But they're not always there. They're not
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watching you take a shower or make out with somebody.
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They're there in essence to help you. And besides, I
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believe that they can't really see you see us. They
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see our light, so it's not like they can see
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what we're wearing, but they can feel how we're feeling.
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Okay. Now, are there any common signs that people get
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when loved ones are trying to reach out to them?
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The biggest sign is if you can really be aware
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of how you feel, is that you remember how you
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felt about that person. You remember what it was like
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to sit in a room with them or have a
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conversation with them, and you feel it in your heart.
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And so if all of a sudden you feel that
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oftentimes they're there, or if they wore a certain perfume
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or they loved a certain food, you might smell those things,
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or if they played the piano beautifully, you might start
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to hear that. Sometimes you can hear your name or
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see them to your side vision. I can never say,
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per feel right, so your side vision, that's They do
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that in all sorts of ways, countless ways they'll show
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you they're there, license plates, pennies, so many things. But
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when you're going through something traumatic or joyful, joyful, you
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can feel them because that you can really feel them.
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When you're joyful and sad, it's kind of out of
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the blue. It just hits you because like, you know
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how you feel, and all of a sudden it's different.
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So I think it's limitless. It's just limitless, all right.
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So we've got a couple listening questions here. The first
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one is what is the difference between a psychic and
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a medium?
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Great question. So a psychic feels they are. A psychic
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is somebody that can feel things, and they can see things,
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and they can hear things, et cetera, all the clears,
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and it's like a six lane highway with information coming
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in about what was, what is, and what may be.
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And a medium is that and also more like a
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twelve or fourteen lane highway because they can feel spirit
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energy and other energy, maybe other realms, so spirit energy
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as well. That's my definition and a popular definition of
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the difference. So all mediums are psychic, but not all
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psychics are mediums, and they're all good, it's all wonderful.
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And I've heard both, Yeah, that there is one or
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the other, but you can't have one. That's both. And
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I've obviously felt that I am both, but you are both, yeah,
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And it is hard to be bold, to.
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Be honest, It is hard, it is, I agree with you.
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It can be really dreaming.
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Now. The other one here is are we supposed to
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get to know our spirit guides or do they just
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support our out of love?
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Whatever you want, whatever you want. If you want to
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get to know them, you absolutely and get to know them,
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and you can ask them to send message messages to
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you through dreams or through other people that somebody just
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might add the blue shirt talking to you about something,
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or you might be guided to go into a particular
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spot and you keep seeing like a lot of people
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want a name for their guide, so you might keep
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seeing fret So then you relate to that, but you
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don't have to. Your guides are that If you read
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something to yourself and listen to that voice, that's the
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voice of your guides, and you don't know always that
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it's theirs because it's been with you for so long
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and it seems like you as well, but there's a
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different feel to it, same voice, a little different feel.
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Okay, we got a couple more here. So Michelle says,
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what do they do all day? If you die young,
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like my sister at three years old? Is she growing
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up now? What do they do for thirty years or
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do they reincarnate?
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So it's my understanding that they get to have a
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life on the other side. That's what I've seen over
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all these years, they do get to grow up, they
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get to have their life on the other side. Of course,
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their deep loved ones aren't necessarily with them until it's
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their time to cross over, and they don't reincarnate. Essentially,
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tell you're on the other side as well. But here's
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the thing. There's a piece of our spirit that's always
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on the other side. So there's only a piece of
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us here. There's only a part of our spirit energy
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here doing this life, living this life. Another part is
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on the other side, helping you. That's your higher self.
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So there are times where people can reincarnate even if
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the rest of us are here because party of their soul,
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their soul is still there. Does that make sense?
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Yeah? Absolutely, all right, we got another one here. What
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are we supposed to embrace about quantum physics?
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Oh gosh, I wish I could tell you. I understand
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everything about quantum physics, but that nothing disappears everything everything
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turns into something else. Nothing just disappears. And so a spirit,
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a person when they die, when their spirit separates from
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their body, they go somewhere else. They still exist. Their
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body may go into dust, but nothing just vanishes, It
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just turns into something different.
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Do animals stay animals when they die or baby souls
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they stay babies?
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So baby souls know that they were going to die,
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just so you know, and sorry about the person that
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sent a message about their three year old sibling. That
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would be absolutely horrible. Babies know that they're going to die,
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and if they want to evolve into adulthood, they can
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absolutely do that. And animals same thing. They just get
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to have this amazing energy on the other side. But
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when we cross over, we get to see them.
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Okay, let's see where we're at here. Do our guides
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change over time?
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These are such great questions. So we all come in
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with one main guide. I call it our senior guide,
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and that guide has been with us through many lives
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and helps us do the outline of the life we're
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going to live so we can work through our caiment
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debt and have a lot of joy. And then there
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are junior guides that come in. So if we're going
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to go to nursing school, or we want to be
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an electrician and we're going to school for that, a
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guide that knows something about that comes close to help us.
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So and then when we're done needing that kind of help.
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Another guide might come through if you have a parent
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who has a degenerative disease and you need some guidance,
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which we all would and do a guide that knows
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something about that, that could be a support that maybe
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somebody that in many lives that they had were in
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medicine some way they can help with the healing and
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helping you heal and helping you process that. So we
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have many guides, many guides, but one main guide. So
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through our life we could have three, four at a time,
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but also that one main guide stays helping orchestrate. This
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is all my understanding, I mean, other people might have
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a different view. This is my understanding over doing this
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for so long and talking to so many dead people.
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And it's funny that you know, even after forty plus
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years of doing it, or even twenty plus years of
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doing it, we still don't have any more answers than
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when we first started, other than little tidbits here and
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there exactly.
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And we can be wrong, I mean we can be wrong.
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I just know how things feel to me and how
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strong they feel to me. But other people have different views,
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and that's okay. I don't argue with other people's views.
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Unless they say people suffer and they're worried about that
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when they cross over and I say, I've never seen that,
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So I agree. Everybody can have different views. And that's
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the thing about doing a reading. You can have three people,
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three psychics, three mediums doing reading right next to you.
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We're going to see maybe similar things, but we're going
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to identify it differently because it goes through the lens
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of our own experience in our life.
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It's all about interpretation. I mean, even taro, like everybody
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questions if taro is a very good tool, and it
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can be, but same situation. One person is going to
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interpret the cards one way, another person's gonna interpret them
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completely different or similar, but there will be some inconsistencies exactly. No.
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Everything should be empowering. Though, if you are a reading
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and you don't feel empowered, I don't think that was
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a good reading. Even if you're doing really bad, naughty things.
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Somebody that does a good reading will help you see
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that what you're doing isn't helping you or other people,
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and help you find a way through it, so you
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don't do that. That's my opinion. That's what I've done
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in my readings.
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Right now, do dead loved ones tend to show up
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more during grief, big life changes or moments of danger,
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or is it just kind of random?
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During moments of high emotion, they often show up. Joy
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is a huge one that people take pictures and they
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see a little or in the picture their loved one
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is there smiling during danger. But the thing about the
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during danger is if you think you hear relatives say
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do this and it doesn't make sense, don't do that
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because it might be just the voice of your fear.
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I always run it through the follow your heart, trust
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your gut, and use your head. So if i get
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this really big intuitive feeling and I'm in the middle
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of something that's very oh, this is not good, I
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can run it through that as fast as I can.
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Because when you're scared your head you might ignore what
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your head is saying, but your head needs to be
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heard too.
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Right now, I've asked this probably to a lot of
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different people mediums. Do you feel that spirit community communication
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is always happening, but you know the majority of the
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population don't notice it because of life being busy, being
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grief stricken, those types of things.
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I do believe it's happening all the time, so when
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someone crosses over, it takes time for them to acclimate
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and do the life of you, et cetera. But in general,
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there's spirit energy everywhere all of the time, but we're
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not in tune with it, in part because we're not
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supposed to be. We're supposed to be living our lives
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and here and now and doing what we can to
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bring light to our soul and bring more color to
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our soul. But there is spirit energy everywhere, and it
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can be very tiring for a median, which I'm sure
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you can attest to.
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Absolutely. I miss sleep sometimes because somebody wants to try
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and be at my face like I've I don't know
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how many times I've had and maybe you haven't had this,
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maybe you have. But I'll be either trying to go
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to sleep or kind of in that haze of falling asleep,
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and then a bright light flashes in front of my
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eyes and I open them to make sure there's no
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lights on, and then I'm like, leave me alone. I
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am trying to sleep, Please just let me sleep. We
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will try and address this in the morning.
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So great, because you're a light. You're very lucky. You're
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a light. I know you've done work to get there.
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But that's why light spirits try to get a hold
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of you if they were dark. But you do have
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to say not now. You know, this is my home,
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my space, my body. I need my own energy and
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I cannot share it right now, and you need to
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take a blessing and leave.
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Yeah.
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Well, and whenever you say.
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There was, I've told a couple of people this, there
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was a few years ago. I woke up feeling like
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there was somebody in the room. I didn't have the
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light in the face or anything like that, and I
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woke up and I'm like, Okay, there's nobody here that
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I can see. Went back to sleep. When I woke up,
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I had a I believe it was the same and uh,
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two dark dots on both sides of the webbing of
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my finger. And I've had a couple of people tell
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me that that was them giving me a taste of
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what I can do myself. Bye. By the meaning of
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that is I when I when that happened, I had
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no pain in my knees like I usually do. My
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anxiety went away, and I didn't have any fear for
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any of it. Wally and so h A lot A
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couple of different medium friends of mine have said, well,
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one a, well they're extraterrestrial, but they're they're no longer
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in the physical And another friend said something similar. So
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that's one of the things too, Like if we think
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about interdimensional extraterrestrial, there's been so many things now where
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it's fallen under a certain umbrella. Do you feel that
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in the paranormal field, we tend to put too many
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things under like a specific category.
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I do, because we don't understand. And the more broad
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it is, the more we feel like, Okay, now we
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can control this, we understand this. But the more we
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study it, I mean, I know I need to study
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it more, the more we'll be able to understand, like
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the difference between a psychic and a medium saint thing
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to go look at the different energies that can come
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to us from other dimensions. It's always be honest with you.
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It's scared me, It has scared me, it still scares me,
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and that means I need to learn more about it.
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Because I'd encountered certain things. I didn't know what that was.
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And when you were just telling the story about the
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black dots, totally correct about it being from I don't
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know what even you, I say, other realms, but that's
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just I don't know. ET can be ic, but I
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feel like it's other realms that are further from where
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our friends are in spirit. That's how I see it.
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Well, in the way I think of ET's extraterrestrials are
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anything that is not of this world or this reality,
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so we can define it however we want. But yeah,
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it's kind of all the same in sor I like that.
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That's very empowering.
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Yeah, and people will argue and that's fine. But a
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lot of the times we don't know. We still don't
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know what is really happening. Even as a psychic medium. Yeah,
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we're talking to things that nobody else can see. But
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is it our dead loved ones. Is it just something
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from the other side masking as a dead loved one.
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We don't know for sure. We can speculate and say, yes,
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this is what they're communicating to.
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Us, but I agree, And also just to piggyback, but
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to add something to that, I think when my grandma
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fe came to me a long time ago, I could
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feel her love, and so when I'm doing a reading
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and I can feel love like that, then I feel
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like for sure, it's somebody from the other side that
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loves the person I am doing a reading for. But
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when I do things on the radio, I'm on a
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great show often called KS ninety five. It's a radio
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show in the morning in the Twin Cities, and I
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do tons of readings and they're boom boom boom, boom boom,
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and I hear that I'm on. But it's not as
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strong as doing a one on one. It's strong than
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gone because then there's another reader or another person to
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be read. So if I didn't get the feedback, I
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wouldn't be one hundred percent positive. I can feel it
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in my belly, but the feedback says it's right. But
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it's so quick. Sometimes I think, well, thank goodness, they
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say that, you know overall pretty right on or I
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do these things on Twin City's Live, the show that
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I'm on in the Midwest, and it's it's shorter readings,
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but they're sitting in front of me, and I can
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welcome back and now. A lot of people seek out
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mediums because they're grieving someone has passed. There's a lot
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of unfinished business. How do you approach that responsibility when
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somebody comes to you with.
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That I love that you said responsibility because it's so
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huge you hold their heart in your hand. Well, the
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first thing is is I don't really like to do
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a reading on anyone who has just lost somebody because
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they have to get used to the energy of that
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person in a different way. They do. Their energy signature
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is different than when they had a body and they
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need to grieve and not get addicted to mediums, which
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I think a lot.
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Of people do.
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And I approach it gently and I say, I'm interpreting
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the things that I'm interpreting. They're not always going to
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come when I do a reading. I can't. I don't51200:31:16.720 --> 00:31:19.519
call the dead. I just am aware when they're around51300:31:20.200 --> 00:31:23.480
and to know that they're those on the other side.51400:31:24.079 --> 00:31:27.079
I don't know that I've ever met somebody who was51500:31:27.160 --> 00:31:30.920
ticked off at somebody here like that just doesn't it51600:31:30.920 --> 00:31:33.519
doesn't exist. Nor are they about to say where they51700:31:33.519 --> 00:31:38.039
bury the money, you know. So it's more like resolving51800:31:38.119 --> 00:31:41.079
things that they didn't get to resolve, saying things that51900:31:41.119 --> 00:31:43.119
they never got to say. You know, there are a52000:31:43.119 --> 00:31:47.079
lot of people different generations and generations now who didn't52100:31:47.079 --> 00:31:51.440
really ever say I love you. I probably overdo it52200:31:51.440 --> 00:31:53.640
with my family because I always say I love you,52300:31:53.680 --> 00:31:56.039
because you never know the last you never know if52400:31:56.079 --> 00:31:57.680
that's the last time you're going to talk to them,52500:31:58.119 --> 00:32:00.559
if I'm going to be gone. So so things that52600:32:00.599 --> 00:32:03.920
you didn't get to hear from your loved one, they52700:32:04.039 --> 00:32:07.799
like to bring that. And I've done readings on many52800:32:07.880 --> 00:32:13.160
people who are victims of different kinds of abuse, and52900:32:13.440 --> 00:32:16.000
that spirit will talk to me about that abuse and53000:32:16.039 --> 00:32:18.799
apologize for it. I have to be very careful with53100:32:18.839 --> 00:32:21.119
that because I don't want to trigger anybody, So I'm53200:32:21.279 --> 00:32:25.720
very careful with that. They want to help you feel better.53300:32:26.240 --> 00:32:29.759
They not only want to help relieve themselves of the53400:32:29.799 --> 00:32:32.359
heaviness of some of the burden of things they did.53500:32:32.759 --> 00:32:35.240
They want to make you feel better. And I think53600:32:35.319 --> 00:32:39.039
that's a very beautiful thing. So I approach it very53700:32:39.079 --> 00:32:43.359
carefully and with lots of love and reverence for those53800:32:43.400 --> 00:32:45.079
on the other side. I feel like when I'm doing53900:32:45.079 --> 00:32:47.640
a one on one reading reading, it's not just one54000:32:47.960 --> 00:32:50.400
because there are spirits and I'm there for them too,54100:32:50.759 --> 00:32:53.200
just as much. Did I answer your question?54200:32:53.839 --> 00:32:58.319
Yeah, Now, I appreciate that you will not do reading54300:32:58.319 --> 00:33:01.960
for somebody who loved one has just passed away, because54400:33:02.279 --> 00:33:06.799
it can be very fresh and it will not help54500:33:06.880 --> 00:33:10.240
them if you're doing a reading and it's fresh in54600:33:10.279 --> 00:33:14.440
their mind. But have you ever had a moment where54700:33:14.440 --> 00:33:17.319
it helped somebody move through their grief and healthy way?54800:33:18.119 --> 00:33:21.480
Oh? Many, many, many moments like that. That's a good question,54900:33:21.680 --> 00:33:27.039
Many many moments, because so, for instance, if you feel55000:33:27.119 --> 00:33:29.839
bad that you weren't there. When your loved one dies,55100:33:30.920 --> 00:33:33.720
that person will come give certain information to help you55200:33:33.880 --> 00:33:38.920
understand that it was okay, because it's very it's hard55300:33:38.960 --> 00:33:42.480
to let go like that, and people choose who's with55400:33:42.559 --> 00:33:45.920
them overall their soul does. And it isn't to say55500:33:45.960 --> 00:33:48.680
they didn't love you, because sometimes it's they didn't want55600:33:48.720 --> 00:33:50.519
you there because it was too hard to leave you.55700:33:51.119 --> 00:33:54.119
And I again, I've never really met anyone on the55800:33:54.119 --> 00:33:56.240
other side that says they should have done it differently,55900:33:56.599 --> 00:33:59.759
because from their standpoint, they get to view the whole56000:33:59.759 --> 00:34:02.559
book book. They don't just see the little chapters. They56100:34:02.559 --> 00:34:04.559
see the whole book. They see so much more, they56200:34:04.599 --> 00:34:08.639
know so much more. So they're not mad. I mean,56300:34:09.320 --> 00:34:12.440
maybe they're not as evolved. Some spirits are more of56400:34:12.559 --> 00:34:15.880
evolved than others. And quite frankly, the ones that are56500:34:15.880 --> 00:34:18.960
not overly evolved, they didn't They don't get through my56600:34:19.000 --> 00:34:21.800
boundaries and they don't get through my I call my bouncers,56700:34:21.840 --> 00:34:22.360
my guides.56800:34:25.599 --> 00:34:28.960
Now, we've got so many listener questions and I want56900:34:29.000 --> 00:34:31.199
to make sure I get to a lot of them.57000:34:31.360 --> 00:34:35.199
One of them is is this was from our Facebook group.57100:34:36.840 --> 00:34:40.519
One of the listeners has had dreams where she's looking57200:34:40.559 --> 00:34:44.800
for her deceased husband and it's happened multiple times and57300:34:44.840 --> 00:34:48.920
she's wondering what they mean and why he hasn't come57400:34:49.360 --> 00:34:51.760
to communicate with her.57500:34:52.199 --> 00:34:56.239
So that's a very moving dream. I have the chills.57600:34:56.320 --> 00:34:59.719
So if you are experiencing the same dream and your57700:34:59.760 --> 00:35:01.920
look looking for them and it's is that what they're57800:35:01.960 --> 00:35:03.840
saying is that they're they're dreaming and they.57900:35:03.760 --> 00:35:07.320
Can ye for them. Yes, yes, So.58000:35:07.400 --> 00:35:10.239
That's because they don't really know how to sense their58100:35:10.360 --> 00:35:14.039
energy or them in the real realm that they're in.58200:35:14.639 --> 00:35:18.199
So they're working through the fact that they cannot they58300:35:18.199 --> 00:35:21.039
cannot connect in the same way. And it's a good58400:35:21.079 --> 00:35:23.559
way to work it through because eventually it'll be like, oh,58500:35:23.639 --> 00:35:27.360
this is what your energy signature is like because they58600:35:27.360 --> 00:35:29.880
get they're busy on the other side, but they do58700:35:30.079 --> 00:35:32.599
get to come visit when we're ready and they're ready.58800:35:33.000 --> 00:35:36.800
So chances are really, really, really good that their loved58900:35:36.800 --> 00:35:39.719
one is trying to get through. But some people think59000:35:39.760 --> 00:35:42.519
it's supposed to be like the sign boo on the mirror,59100:35:42.639 --> 00:35:46.360
like in ghost the movie Ghost. Have you seen movie ghosts?59200:35:46.400 --> 00:35:49.920
Some people maybe haven't, or it's it's that they're going59300:35:50.000 --> 00:35:52.719
to see just pennies or they're going to say, all right,59400:35:53.039 --> 00:35:56.400
make firecrackers go off at noon. But it doesn't work59500:35:56.440 --> 00:35:58.119
like that. They do it and the way they can59600:35:58.159 --> 00:35:59.679
do it, you have to be open to what that59700:35:59.760 --> 00:36:02.880
might be and it will feel a certain way, and that's.59800:36:02.719 --> 00:36:05.880
How you'll know. It's funny you bring up the movie59900:36:05.920 --> 00:36:09.719
Ghosts because my wife, she's our sponsor. She owns the60000:36:09.840 --> 00:36:12.679
Necking Studios, and she's a seramecist and in all of60100:36:12.679 --> 00:36:15.599
her classes. Sure tell everybody we want, We're not going60200:36:15.639 --> 00:36:17.480
to ghost it out. I'm not going to get behind60300:36:17.519 --> 00:36:21.079
you like Patrick Swayze. I will just show you on60400:36:21.119 --> 00:36:27.079
the other side on how of that. Now we got60500:36:27.079 --> 00:36:31.719
another question here. Is having past lives true?60600:36:31.960 --> 00:36:39.199
Yes? Yes, yes, yes, past lives many past lives. We've60700:36:39.239 --> 00:36:42.599
had many past lives and we will have more of60800:36:42.679 --> 00:36:44.920
them as we lived through these lives because it helps60900:36:44.920 --> 00:36:48.480
our soul grow. We want to come back and most61000:36:48.519 --> 00:36:50.840
of the time and be with the people that we61100:36:50.960 --> 00:36:53.920
love and experience the things that we experience and work61200:36:53.960 --> 00:36:57.039
through our curR Macdebt. I one hundred percent believe that,61300:36:57.119 --> 00:36:59.599
and I will say I remember being two years old61400:36:59.679 --> 00:37:03.920
in my crib thinking about past lives. I know that61500:37:03.960 --> 00:37:07.519
sounds really strange, but I've told my parents about that61600:37:07.559 --> 00:37:09.760
many years ago, and like the crib look like this,61700:37:09.760 --> 00:37:11.599
this is what happened. Then you came in and I61800:37:11.760 --> 00:37:13.599
was singing and they were like, I remember that.61900:37:18.840 --> 00:37:21.360
Can you talk about soul families?62000:37:23.519 --> 00:37:27.400
So our soul family isn't necessarily the family that we62100:37:27.480 --> 00:37:31.519
were born into by blood, adoption, those kinds of things.62200:37:31.519 --> 00:37:35.280
Our soul family is families that are souls that we62300:37:35.320 --> 00:37:37.519
have gone through many lives with, that we learn with,62400:37:37.639 --> 00:37:41.679
that support us. Sometimes they in this life might hate us,62500:37:41.719 --> 00:37:43.480
because that's what they're supposed to do. When we keep62600:37:43.519 --> 00:37:46.880
coming back with them, they're this familiar. You meet them62700:37:46.880 --> 00:37:51.159
and they seem so familiar, and there's something very meaningful62800:37:51.280 --> 00:37:54.039
that they do in your life. And even if even62900:37:54.079 --> 00:37:55.920
if you only knew them for a few years and63000:37:55.960 --> 00:37:59.280
those memories remain, that was part of your soul family.63100:37:59.320 --> 00:38:02.079
So it's of souls that you keep coming back with.63200:38:02.360 --> 00:38:03.880
Think of it as a soul.63300:38:03.760 --> 00:38:11.159
Click okay, and it's I've heard people explain things like this,63400:38:11.280 --> 00:38:13.119
but I've never heard it called the soul family. So63500:38:13.119 --> 00:38:19.480
that's very fascinating. To me, and I've had plenty of63600:38:19.480 --> 00:38:27.440
people where it's like we've done this before, you know, right, yeah,63700:38:27.559 --> 00:38:29.840
or just I I know you. I don't know how63800:38:29.880 --> 00:38:31.280
I know you.63900:38:31.280 --> 00:38:32.760
You're so recognizing to them.64000:38:32.920 --> 00:38:39.840
Yeah, so that's that's interesting. Another one here, what is64100:38:40.039 --> 00:38:42.559
spiritual warfare or is there such a thing.64200:38:44.000 --> 00:38:47.960
So this is my understanding. Again, could be wrong, but64300:38:48.280 --> 00:38:52.400
spiritual warfare is when you are attacking somebody spiritually and64400:38:52.440 --> 00:38:55.480
they're attacking you, groups of people, just the two of you.64500:38:55.639 --> 00:38:59.079
That's my understanding. I could be wrong, but it's a64600:38:59.199 --> 00:39:04.639
it's a worst spirit between groups, between people, just individuals.64700:39:05.000 --> 00:39:09.639
It's like this battle on another level. That is my understanding.64800:39:09.679 --> 00:39:14.559
Is that your understanding, Yes and no.64900:39:14.679 --> 00:39:20.840
I believe that there are things that attack us from65000:39:21.039 --> 00:39:29.920
the other side, but I also believe that it's our65100:39:30.000 --> 00:39:33.440
own belief system that causes us to feel that way.65200:39:35.639 --> 00:39:39.760
I think there's a lot of truth in that. I65300:39:39.800 --> 00:39:43.440
was picked on as a kid, and that gave me65400:39:43.639 --> 00:39:47.880
the more of the oomph to tell a spirit or65500:39:47.880 --> 00:39:52.280
a ghost really to buzz off. And you have to65600:39:52.280 --> 00:39:55.719
be able to say no, this is no. And there65700:39:55.719 --> 00:39:58.800
are there are spaces where there's more of that, and65800:39:58.840 --> 00:40:00.559
you don't really want to be in that because it's65900:40:00.559 --> 00:40:05.320
really draining. But this is our life, this is our66000:40:05.360 --> 00:40:07.880
turn to be here, this is our body, and I66100:40:07.920 --> 00:40:10.559
know I keep saying that, but we have some power66200:40:10.639 --> 00:40:14.119
over that, not one hundred percent, but we have some66300:40:14.239 --> 00:40:16.760
real power over our lives, truly.66400:40:18.679 --> 00:40:21.000
Well. And I'm glad you bring that up because that'll66500:40:21.000 --> 00:40:23.639
bring us to this next question here is is there66600:40:23.719 --> 00:40:27.239
such a thing as life paths or do we make66700:40:27.280 --> 00:40:30.639
our own destinies? Is there anything to free will?66800:40:30.719 --> 00:40:33.400
I guess is better there's everything to free will. I66900:40:33.440 --> 00:40:35.880
love these questions. I do believe there's a life path67000:40:35.920 --> 00:40:39.920
that we created before we came, but it's not one path.67100:40:40.039 --> 00:40:42.440
It's like there's many forks in the road, and you67200:40:42.559 --> 00:40:45.280
decide which ones you want to take, and that is67300:40:45.320 --> 00:40:49.440
what helps you evolve as soul. Free will reigns completely.67400:40:49.800 --> 00:40:54.920
But your higher self decided certain things about your life here.67500:40:55.280 --> 00:40:58.039
You know what you would look like and what your67600:40:58.039 --> 00:41:00.519
body would be like, and there's certain things that you67700:41:00.679 --> 00:41:03.159
were going to go through that would help you grow.67800:41:03.599 --> 00:41:05.760
But then throw in a bunch of other things. You know,67900:41:05.840 --> 00:41:09.880
you make different decisions and it takes you on different trajectory.68000:41:09.960 --> 00:41:12.519
It's it's free will reigns.68100:41:13.960 --> 00:41:19.079
Well. And that's the funny thing too, is that I've68200:41:19.079 --> 00:41:23.440
talked to numerous people about this, and I always come68300:41:23.480 --> 00:41:29.719
back to the saying of that. People always want to say, well,68400:41:29.760 --> 00:41:34.119
why the hell would I choose what's going on right68500:41:34.159 --> 00:41:36.760
now in my life? And you know, most people don't68600:41:36.800 --> 00:41:42.119
understand that we're we have multiple situations that we have68700:41:42.199 --> 00:41:47.400
to live through for lessons throughout our lifetimes. Multiple Yeah,68800:41:48.760 --> 00:41:55.840
So in your opinion, is that kind of this what's68900:41:55.880 --> 00:41:59.000
going on? We were just trying to hit all of69000:41:59.159 --> 00:42:03.440
the main lessons that we need to learn.69100:42:04.159 --> 00:42:07.119
Yes, yes, and some people try to bypass it, but69200:42:07.199 --> 00:42:10.920
we are you know, I love the whole law of attraction.69300:42:11.880 --> 00:42:14.400
I love the I love all things about it, but69400:42:14.440 --> 00:42:16.960
it's there's a lot of interpretations I don't believe in.69500:42:17.159 --> 00:42:19.440
And so part of that is about the life path.69600:42:19.840 --> 00:42:23.639
So I am a breast cancer survivor and I had69700:42:23.880 --> 00:42:26.840
people that I didn't think were being very wise that said,69800:42:27.360 --> 00:42:30.280
you know, you deserved that or you chose that, well,69900:42:30.320 --> 00:42:34.159
a nobody deserves something like that and b And before70000:42:34.199 --> 00:42:36.239
I came here, that was one of the things that70100:42:36.280 --> 00:42:38.719
I was going to do that wasn't like my thoughts70200:42:38.760 --> 00:42:42.239
were creating that here. It was this is one of70300:42:42.239 --> 00:42:45.519
the big things. So when people lose a child or70400:42:45.599 --> 00:42:49.639
a spouse or or something happens and they can't walk,70500:42:49.840 --> 00:42:52.400
it's not like they chose that this was something that70600:42:52.519 --> 00:42:55.119
was part of what was going to happen in their life.70700:42:55.199 --> 00:42:58.280
They didn't do anything wrong. I really wanted to say that.70800:43:01.719 --> 00:43:04.400
Now this is another one from our group, and I've70900:43:04.440 --> 00:43:08.079
been thinking about this one and thinking about this one71000:43:08.199 --> 00:43:11.960
because we kind of mentioned it earlier that we were71100:43:11.960 --> 00:43:19.800
not really sure definitively if there's something other than family members,71200:43:19.840 --> 00:43:24.800
loved ones, spirit guys coming through that are giving us messages.71300:43:24.880 --> 00:43:27.760
But the question was is does a medium actually believe71400:43:27.920 --> 00:43:31.480
that they communicate with people who have passed on or71500:43:31.480 --> 00:43:35.360
do they believe that God has anointed mediums to relate71600:43:35.440 --> 00:43:38.199
these communications both.71700:43:39.079 --> 00:43:44.039
So God said, this is an ability that you're going71800:43:44.079 --> 00:43:46.480
to have. You got to do good with it. And71900:43:47.000 --> 00:43:51.239
I communicate with spirits to help people resolve things on72000:43:51.360 --> 00:43:55.639
both realms. So I wanted to be a medium. I'm72100:43:55.679 --> 00:43:58.960
not sure if I'm answering that question correctly, but everything72200:43:59.079 --> 00:44:02.119
good and everything full of light and love is part72300:44:02.159 --> 00:44:06.159
of that higher power God. So I do believe that72400:44:06.480 --> 00:44:09.199
this was an ability I was given to do good72500:44:09.280 --> 00:44:11.599
things with. If I didn't do good things with it,72600:44:12.280 --> 00:44:14.480
I wouldn't have it right.72700:44:15.000 --> 00:44:20.960
Well, yeah, that answers it pretty much. But you also72800:44:21.079 --> 00:44:24.159
believe that we are getting these messages from loved ones.72900:44:24.159 --> 00:44:26.360
It's not necessarily God saying nothing.73000:44:27.719 --> 00:44:30.280
Lad you clarified that, Yes, I don't, I'm not. I mean,73100:44:30.320 --> 00:44:32.559
I would like to say I've got a hotline to God.73200:44:32.719 --> 00:44:34.440
I feel like I have a bit of good connection.73300:44:35.159 --> 00:44:38.119
But I feel like I was given these abilities to73400:44:38.960 --> 00:44:44.039
hear spirits, to help those spirits and to help the people.73500:44:44.480 --> 00:44:46.719
But I don't feel like I've got this big hotline,73600:44:46.800 --> 00:44:48.719
and that would be really lovely. I actually pray for73700:44:48.800 --> 00:44:52.519
that a lot now.73800:44:53.840 --> 00:44:56.599
Last one from our Facebook group here our dreams, deja73900:44:56.679 --> 00:44:59.400
vu moments or visions, et cetera. Just a part of74000:44:59.440 --> 00:45:03.360
a person's conscious that are intended for each individual to74100:45:03.440 --> 00:45:08.880
define or is that something that is more of a74200:45:09.039 --> 00:45:12.039
like a spiritual communication or kind of both?74300:45:13.360 --> 00:45:15.960
Okay, So I'm highly dyslexic, so I flip all these74400:45:16.039 --> 00:45:20.199
questions around. So I truly do so, and I think74500:45:20.199 --> 00:45:22.559
a lot of people that are really sensitive, have some74600:45:22.599 --> 00:45:26.239
sort of a learning thing. So deja vu means this74700:45:26.280 --> 00:45:29.039
has happened before. So take one question of time and74800:45:29.079 --> 00:45:30.559
I'll whip them through really quick.74900:45:31.039 --> 00:45:37.440
Okay, So it's our dreams, deja vu, moments or visions.75000:45:38.679 --> 00:45:43.960
Is it just something that our conscious is intended to75100:45:44.000 --> 00:45:45.119
define individually?75200:45:47.199 --> 00:45:50.960
We can define it individually, we can. I don't think75300:45:51.000 --> 00:45:53.280
I'm answering this correctly because I'm not connecting with the question.75400:45:53.320 --> 00:45:58.960
I'm sorry. When dreams are can be a psychological thing,75500:45:59.039 --> 00:46:01.719
and they could be a spiritual thing, but we don't75600:46:01.760 --> 00:46:05.480
define which is which they just are? Does that make sense?75700:46:06.039 --> 00:46:10.760
They just are? And and deja vu? That needs this75800:46:10.800 --> 00:46:14.320
has happened before. That's your soul saying heads up, this75900:46:14.360 --> 00:46:17.440
has happened before. And when you get something pre cognitively76000:46:18.119 --> 00:46:19.920
like a hit and run something that comes to you,76100:46:20.039 --> 00:46:22.360
that means it's a heads up for your soul to76200:46:22.360 --> 00:46:24.760
be able to deal with it. Am I answering this76300:46:24.840 --> 00:46:25.480
correct Yeah?76400:46:25.559 --> 00:46:28.960
Yeah, I think basically what they're asking is are all76500:46:29.000 --> 00:46:31.519
of those things just a part of our psyche like76600:46:31.800 --> 00:46:35.559
making us question things? Or is it like a spiritual76700:46:35.559 --> 00:46:36.639
communication thing.76800:46:36.559 --> 00:46:39.159
It's a soul thing. Yeah, it's a soul thing.76900:46:42.480 --> 00:46:44.679
The way that it was worded, Yes, I agree it77000:46:44.719 --> 00:46:46.719
was a little confusing, but I think that's what they77100:46:46.760 --> 00:46:51.960
were asking is is really good question too. Y. Now,77200:46:52.079 --> 00:46:54.920
for someone listening who wants to be more open to77300:46:54.960 --> 00:47:00.920
science from their loved ones, where should they start.77400:47:01.679 --> 00:47:04.239
You have to know how you feel, and if you77500:47:04.280 --> 00:47:07.199
can work through some of that top garbage that you've77600:47:07.199 --> 00:47:11.119
been holding in, you're more open because all your your77700:47:11.119 --> 00:47:14.280
intuition is based on how you feel. It's that language77800:47:14.320 --> 00:47:17.920
of intuition based on all of how you feel. So77900:47:18.000 --> 00:47:19.880
you'll learn to get the signals from those on the78000:47:19.920 --> 00:47:22.599
other side and your intuition because it'll come through your78100:47:22.639 --> 00:47:26.519
five senses. So if you always did something like drink78200:47:26.519 --> 00:47:29.239
coffee with your mom and you think she's coming through78300:47:29.239 --> 00:47:32.599
because you taste coffee, you're probably right. So you have78400:47:32.679 --> 00:47:35.039
to know how you feel and then when you get78500:47:35.039 --> 00:47:36.079
an insight, honor it.78600:47:38.639 --> 00:47:42.199
That hits very much home to me because there are78700:47:42.280 --> 00:47:47.039
multiple times that I smell black and milds nobody's smoking78800:47:47.079 --> 00:47:52.119
around me, And when my grandfather used to smoke, he78900:47:52.280 --> 00:47:59.400
smoked black and milds, so I always remember that that's him. Yeah,79000:47:59.519 --> 00:48:01.920
there are two lines that I smell like cigarette smokes79100:48:01.960 --> 00:48:03.960
and stuff like that, and I'm like, that's it's not79200:48:04.079 --> 00:48:06.400
the same smell. It can't be the same person. I79300:48:06.400 --> 00:48:10.000
don't know who it is usually, but yeah, so that79400:48:10.400 --> 00:48:14.440
thank you for bringing that up, because that just validates79500:48:14.440 --> 00:48:23.000
for me that I'm understanding what I'm sure feeling. Now,79600:48:23.360 --> 00:48:27.760
should people ask their loved ones for a sign? Or79700:48:28.079 --> 00:48:31.880
is that kind of like forcing the interaction?79800:48:34.719 --> 00:48:36.880
I feel like it's okay to ask for a sign.79900:48:38.239 --> 00:48:41.559
I really do, you know, ask for a sign, just80000:48:41.599 --> 00:48:45.320
don't be rigid about what that sign might be. You know,80100:48:45.920 --> 00:48:48.920
many times people come in and said, I asked when80200:48:49.159 --> 00:48:51.599
they were doing I was doing a reading, I asked80300:48:51.639 --> 00:48:53.960
for my loved one to give me specific words, and80400:48:54.000 --> 00:48:56.519
you're not giving them to me. And I described their80500:48:56.559 --> 00:48:59.639
loved one, even got their name, how they died, but80600:48:59.679 --> 00:49:03.480
they wanted to hear the word abracadabra. Don't limit things.80700:49:03.599 --> 00:49:06.239
Then you're limiting yourself and you don't get enough of80800:49:06.280 --> 00:49:10.920
the interaction. So just be open hearted.80900:49:13.599 --> 00:49:17.400
So what you're basically saying is is like, so something81000:49:17.440 --> 00:49:21.800
that I've always been told is if you want communication,81100:49:22.599 --> 00:49:28.719
ask for something specific, like make me find coins and81200:49:29.440 --> 00:49:33.679
not coins like American coins, coins that I would never see.81300:49:34.119 --> 00:49:36.800
Is that not how we should be doing it.81400:49:38.239 --> 00:49:40.440
So you can be specific if you want, but you81500:49:40.519 --> 00:49:43.320
might be really disappointed. That's what I'm saying. Just open81600:49:43.360 --> 00:49:45.519
your heart because you'll feel it. You can say coins81700:49:45.559 --> 00:49:49.599
would be lovely, license plates would be lovely, a song81800:49:49.639 --> 00:49:53.920
would be lovely. Just help me to recognize that sign81900:49:54.079 --> 00:49:57.000
and not think anything and everything is a sign. And82000:49:57.039 --> 00:49:59.480
when you start to kind of sink into how you82100:49:59.519 --> 00:50:02.760
feel and how much you love them, that's really a82200:50:02.760 --> 00:50:05.559
big deal. If you can really feel how much you82300:50:05.679 --> 00:50:07.840
love them. And you know, when spirits really like to82400:50:07.920 --> 00:50:10.880
visit us the most is when we're in a place82500:50:10.920 --> 00:50:15.239
of joy. That's when they find us.82600:50:14.559 --> 00:50:21.239
That's that's awesome. And I hope that they're around more82700:50:21.320 --> 00:50:24.840
for the joyous times than the hard ones. I mean,82800:50:25.239 --> 00:50:32.000
not that I wouldn't want the hell now, I love82900:50:32.159 --> 00:50:36.679
hearing the answer to this question. For any skeptics out83000:50:36.679 --> 00:50:40.239
there that want to say, you know, medianship is just83100:50:40.280 --> 00:50:44.639
a coincidence, it's not real. They're feeding off of your83200:50:44.679 --> 00:50:49.880
body language, what you're telling them. What are your thoughts83300:50:49.920 --> 00:50:50.199
on that?83400:50:51.119 --> 00:50:53.800
Well, first of all, I'm not that smart to feed83500:50:53.840 --> 00:50:55.480
off of those things, and to read that, I mean,83600:50:55.519 --> 00:50:57.719
I think I'm pretty smart, but I'm not that smart,83700:50:58.039 --> 00:51:00.079
and that means they're just not ready for it. And83800:51:00.159 --> 00:51:03.000
someone says, prove it to me. I don't need to83900:51:03.039 --> 00:51:07.920
prove anything. The process itself proves itself. So I get84000:51:07.960 --> 00:51:10.599
people are skeptic, and I think that's to have a84100:51:10.599 --> 00:51:14.760
healthy skepticism is great. You should believe everything, but you84200:51:14.920 --> 00:51:18.840
got to be open to the possibilities. And there is84300:51:18.880 --> 00:51:23.280
no such thing as a as a coincidence. It's all84400:51:23.320 --> 00:51:25.960
meant to be the way that it is. It's all sign.84500:51:28.239 --> 00:51:35.039
Now, what role does trust play in receiving messages? And84600:51:35.199 --> 00:51:37.719
I say that as much for myself as people that84700:51:37.760 --> 00:51:42.280
are wanting those communications, because I honestly have the hardest84800:51:42.320 --> 00:51:45.639
time trusting in what I'm getting.84900:51:46.800 --> 00:51:48.719
I think that's a huge piece to be able to85000:51:48.719 --> 00:51:50.920
trust that you're really getting what you need to be getting,85100:51:50.960 --> 00:51:53.079
and you have to be pretty much of a clear85200:51:53.320 --> 00:51:57.719
conduit to understand it. And when you're opening up, and85300:51:57.840 --> 00:52:01.920
even way after you've opened up, there are yucky energies85400:52:01.960 --> 00:52:05.440
that try to connect. But if you keep raising your85500:52:05.559 --> 00:52:08.039
vibe and you're in a better, better space, they can't85600:52:08.039 --> 00:52:11.760
touch you. They can't touch you, so you don't tell85700:52:11.840 --> 00:52:14.599
somebody this is for sure true. You say, this is85800:52:14.719 --> 00:52:19.440
my feeling about what's happening, and I would love it85900:52:19.480 --> 00:52:21.519
if you'd come back and tell me if that worked86000:52:21.519 --> 00:52:24.079
for you. And the more you get that validation, the86100:52:24.119 --> 00:52:27.400
more you trust so And there are a lot of86200:52:27.400 --> 00:52:30.679
people who do not want to own their stuff. They86300:52:30.760 --> 00:52:33.079
just don't. I mean, all of us at times don't86400:52:33.119 --> 00:52:35.000
want to own our stuff. And I know when I86500:52:35.039 --> 00:52:37.920
do a reading, I'm nailing people right at the heart86600:52:37.960 --> 00:52:43.639
of it because that's my personality. But your personality comes86700:52:43.639 --> 00:52:46.199
out and reading what's important to you, and people don't86800:52:46.199 --> 00:52:48.679
always want to own it. And I'm kind about it,86900:52:49.000 --> 00:52:50.800
but I feel like we stand in our own way87000:52:50.880 --> 00:52:53.119
so much, and I want to help people loosen that87100:52:53.559 --> 00:52:56.599
not because I want to be right, because I'm really87200:52:56.599 --> 00:53:00.280
willing to be wrong. I am. I'm wrong, you know87300:53:00.559 --> 00:53:05.760
there's times I'm wrong in every way, But you want87400:53:05.800 --> 00:53:09.239
the process to help loosen people up and open up87500:53:09.280 --> 00:53:12.199
their heart. And if that's where you're coming from, that87600:53:12.360 --> 00:53:14.280
helps you trust more that you're doing that.87700:53:18.360 --> 00:53:22.960
Now. If someone is listening tonight and grieving and hoping87800:53:23.280 --> 00:53:27.079
their loved one is still with them. What would you87900:53:28.320 --> 00:53:28.800
tell them?88000:53:30.679 --> 00:53:34.159
I would say, I'm so sorry you lost somebody, and88100:53:34.199 --> 00:53:36.800
please know how loved you are, and know that your88200:53:36.840 --> 00:53:40.320
loved one is okay. That they were offered a light88300:53:40.519 --> 00:53:44.559
and most every spirit takes that, and that they are88400:53:45.239 --> 00:53:48.639
being held in the arms of those that loved them,88500:53:49.039 --> 00:53:51.760
and that they are safe, and that you will feel88600:53:51.760 --> 00:53:54.800
their presence when you're open to it in some odd way,88700:53:54.840 --> 00:53:57.400
even through an animal, a lot of times through an animal,88800:53:58.360 --> 00:54:02.159
and that you will see them again, and you should88900:54:02.239 --> 00:54:05.119
enjoy your life because they get to feel those joys.89000:54:05.440 --> 00:54:09.800
They get to experience those joys with you, and again89100:54:09.840 --> 00:54:13.239
you'll find them more easily when you feel that joy89200:54:13.280 --> 00:54:15.639
and you feel that love. Might make you cry a little,89300:54:15.639 --> 00:54:16.920
but that's okay.89400:54:20.599 --> 00:54:24.400
Okay, It is about that time to let you go.89500:54:24.760 --> 00:54:26.960
So I want to give you the chance to tell89600:54:27.000 --> 00:54:29.440
every where they can find you find your work. The89700:54:29.440 --> 00:54:30.639
MIC's all yours.89800:54:31.320 --> 00:54:33.199
Well. First of all, thank you so much for having me.89900:54:33.280 --> 00:54:36.639
This has been a lot of fun. I have a website,90000:54:36.679 --> 00:54:39.519
the Intuitive Coach dot com. I'm a writer. I have90100:54:39.559 --> 00:54:42.840
two books, their Happy Medium series, actually three because I90200:54:42.920 --> 00:54:47.199
participated another book on Amazon and some bookstores and I'm90300:54:47.239 --> 00:54:50.159
on social media, so look for jodylvon JODYLV on the90400:54:50.159 --> 00:54:53.960
Happy Medium. I love when people connect with me that way.90500:54:54.000 --> 00:54:56.239
And I'm on substack, so if you're going to pick one,90600:54:56.760 --> 00:54:57.599
pick substack.90700:54:59.440 --> 00:55:03.599
I have started one, so I'm absolutely gonna start using it.90800:55:03.519 --> 00:55:08.719
More fun and YouTube YouTube's the best, so on YouTube90900:55:08.760 --> 00:55:09.519
too as you are.91000:55:10.039 --> 00:55:13.199
Yeah, all right, Jody, thank you for being on Paratruth91100:55:13.239 --> 00:55:13.599
be Born.91200:55:13.880 --> 00:55:14.320
Thank you.91300:55:16.840 --> 00:55:19.039
All right, folks, make sure you check out Jody living91400:55:19.119 --> 00:55:21.519
in all of the things she's doing. She's doing a91500:55:21.519 --> 00:55:25.119
lot of great things in our community. Now, we asked91600:55:25.119 --> 00:55:29.280
our paratruth or community group, have you ever felt guided91700:55:29.280 --> 00:55:32.679
by a loved one who is past. Twenty six percent91800:55:32.800 --> 00:55:36.719
said yes absolutely, thirty seven said maybe but not sure,91900:55:37.519 --> 00:55:40.400
and thirty seven percent said no, but I'm open to92000:55:40.480 --> 00:55:44.599
the idea. Until next week, folks, where you'll find us,92100:55:44.880 --> 00:55:49.360
same time, same channel. My name is Justin. Talk to92200:55:49.400 --> 00:55:49.920
you guys later.
